The rise of the ‘amicable’ divorce

During these tough times of recession, more and more couples are settling for what we call amicable settlements. Whilst there’s no such thing as a ‘good’ divorce, it seems that there is a new trend for divorcing couples to act much more reasonably with each other to draw to a close what is always an emotional and difficult time for all involved.

Some are calling it the ‘Nigella and Charles’ effect, following the high profile split of television cook Nigella Lawson and her multi-millionaire husband Charles Saatchi. Often such celebrity divorces involve long, drawn-out – and very public – battles through the courts, with plenty of mud-slinging, accusations and point-scoring. Yet Lawson and Saatchi have settled their affairs and divorced with little fuss and, crucially, minimum costs.

It’s an approach that’s becoming increasingly popular as couples seek to limit the time and costs involved in being granted a divorce. With the recession forcing us all to tighten our belts, a quick, amicable settlement is the preferred option for many.

Mediation is an excellent way to agree a divorce settlement without any disputes reaching court. With mediation the spouses can thrash out and agree not just financial arrangements but also settle issues regarding property and access to children. As Family Law specialists, we have extensive expertise in mediation and can help you to reach a mutually agreeable, legally-binding divorce settlement as quickly as possible.

Of course, not every divorce will be settled by mediation and there will be cases where one spouse is determined to drag the other through the courts. But, as Lawson and Saatchi have proved, there is a more dignified way to end a marriage.

As experienced Family Law lawyers we do understand what an emotive experience divorce can be. We are here to offer all the advice and guidance you need to achieve an amicable divorce through mediation. After all, if Nigella and Charles with all their combined wealth can reach an agreement so quickly, let’s hope their amicable divorce can be an inspiration to others. To discuss mediation to achieve a divorce settlement, please call us on 0845 548 1007 for a free 20 minute consultation.

Categories: Divorce Law

The pros and cons of Legal Separation

Many married couples believe that the term ‘separation’ is simply that stage between a marriage ending and a divorce being granted. But in a growing number of cases, separation can actually involve a legal process: being legally separated means that you and your spouse are still married and cannot re-marry, but legally you are no longer living as husband and wife.

As a specialist Family Law firm based in Altrincham, Cheshire, we can provide expert advice on the pros and cons of Legal Separation taking into account your own individual circumstances.

There are several reasons why you may wish to opt for a Legal Separation rather than a divorce. Your religious beliefs, for example, may mean that you are unwilling to divorce, but do wish to show that you and your spouse are no longer together. Alternatively, you might not want to finalise a divorce straight away – a Legal Separation allows you time and space to decide the fate of your marriage. And then there are financial considerations. Unlike a divorce, a Legal Separation means that you should be able to retain some benefits for your spouse and any children, for example survivor benefits included in some pensions and insurance policies.

If you’ve been married for less than a year, you can’t divorce until the year is up and in many cases you may need to be separated for two years before a divorce can be granted. In these cases a Legal Separation will set out the financial terms you and your spouse must adhere to whilst you are waiting to divorce. This is a good way to protect your interests during this interim period.

Of course, there are instances where Legal Separation may not be the right decision to make. For example, you and your spouse may simply agree to separate for a set amount of time in a bid to save your marriage, in which case there is really no need to make it a legal process.

Something else to consider carefully, should you decide to get divorced following a Legal Separation, is that either spouse may argue to the court that the terms of the separation should be used as the basis for the divorce settlement. So it’s vital that you come to a separation agreement that you can both live with, long-term.

And, of course, when you are legally separated neither of you can remarry, which can make it difficult to move on and create a new future for yourselves. Our specialist Family Law lawyers based in our Altrincham, Cheshire offices can talk you through your options and help you to decide if Legal Separation would be the right decision for your circumstances. Please contact us on 0845 548 1007 for a free 20 minute consultation.

Categories: Divorce Law, Family Law