Bird nesting, in the context of parenting, refers to a co-parenting arrangement where the children remain in the family home, and the parents take turns living with them. Instead of the children moving between two separate homes, the parents are the ones who alternate their living arrangements. This arrangement is often temporary and is designed to provide stability for the children during a divorce or separation.
The term “bird nesting” is derived from the way some birds take turns caring for their offspring in the nest. In a bird nesting parenting style, parents share the responsibilities of maintaining the family home and caring for the children while living separately during their non-custodial periods. The goal is to minimise disruptions to the children’s lives and routines, allowing them to maintain a sense of stability and continuity.
While bird nesting can have benefits, such as reducing the stress of moving between two homes for children, it requires effective communication and cooperation between the parents. It may not be suitable for all families, and its success depends on the ability of the parents to work together despite their separation.